Mother forever my friend

Mother being the supreme lover loves her child like nothing. A mother dissipates the clouds of darkness and cause peace to return to our hearts when we are helpless in the wilderness life with her kind precepts and counsels. From the moment we are born till we are cradled in the chariot of death we come across many relation. Some are just for time being some are to betray you are to leave you alone when you need their presence the most some are with you just because of your attributes and some are completed to stick with you due to blood relation compulsion and restrictions. But there is one being who surpasses the love care and affection of anyone related to you and she is the mother.

The love of a mother has no match nor can one replace her love. You spend your formative years thinking your mother is the infallible authority on all topics only to learn later that she was in fact mortal. Even more disappointing is the realization that because no amount of experience on earth can prepare her for the terrifying task of creating a new life and integrating that life into a world over which she exerts so little control she largely guessed and was rarely confident that her choices would give you the advantages she hoped to afford you has any child ever understood inconsequential decision from that day forward’s.

I highly doubt it. No until that child has become a parent do they begin to understand the love of a mother by that time misunderstanding has released for too many angry and bitter words into the relationship. Though there is forgiveness the scars remain to prove that her child never truly knew the contents of her heart. Both child and mother live with the sad regrets and so the cycle continues with the next generation mother is the most important person in my life. When a female becomes a mother her heart gets filled with immense amount of love for her child. She carries her child nine month in her womb bears all the pain and trouble in that process and when her child comes into her arms. She forgets all the pain and loves her child unconditionally.

A mother holds a great respect in Islam. But in our today’s society few mothers are dealt with those of the house maids. Order her make her do work and in return give her nothing not even respect which is of no cost. As she bears too much pain and faces several troubles to fulfill our needs but when she grows old and weak and needs a shoulder we just throw her away like she meant nothing to us we tell her that she is now old and has now gone crazy. Not we think of our past? Not we take notice of the sleepless nights she had spent for us? Not we remember her support in every moment while we were young? Not we remember while we were afraid of our own shadows and she was our only lifeguard? Not we even remember the way she wiped our tears when we used to cry over our broken toys? Respecting our mother must be our top priority as we were her top priority while we were young.

Allah almighty strictly orders us not to say harsh and disrespectful words to your mother for she is your best lover among your relation. Mothers are fonder than fathers of their children because they are more certain they are their own. We must never let her down. We must always try our utmost to be the reason for her smile not the reason for her sorrows and sadness. We must look after our parents even more when they are weak and old. We must be gentle to our parents and speak to them in a nice and polite manner. A mother ageless love and care cannot be exemplified when you were in her womb. She took every step so gently and carefully not to bother you from your deep. This abysmal depth of a mother’s love is immeasurable. There are many precious things that God has bestowed on us however a mother is one of the unique gifts of God. The beauty of life is in the lap and under the shade of mother’s love and care.

Those who are bestowed with this gift don’t quit feel it but those who are deprived of this gift feel it from the care of their hearts mother turns a house into a home is the initial school of a child. Mother is our best teacher and trainer. She never gives up training us to speak’ Amma-Mamma.She walks by knees to help us in our first steps. She teaches us the behaviors lessons.

She never gives up on us. Mother teaches us the philosophies of life. Mother is the instinctive philosophies help us in every walk of our life. She teaches us how to love cherish and respect who we are and what it takes for us to become the adults we will on day be. To me my mother is my security blankets no mother how bad of a day she had. She will always be there with a shoulder to cry on and a sympathetic ear for me. Even if she been screamed at all day she will still be eager to hear my drama filled gossips. My mom is my personal miracle. When ever something becomes too much for me. She is there calming me down with just a hug and a kiss on my forehead. She is always there to company me.

My lord mercy upon my parents the way they had mercy upon me when I was young.