Divorce

Divorce also known as dissolution of marriage is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling and or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country and or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process which may involve issues of alimony spousal support child custody child visitation access parenting time child support distribution of property and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person; where polygyny is legal but polyandry is not divorce allows the woman to marry a new husband. The topic of divorce would seem to require no introduction. Divorce refers to the often messy and painful end of a marriage. For better or for worse divorce is a very common event these days. Most everyone has been touched by it either by going through it themselves as a spouse or a child or knowing someone who has gone through it as a spouse or as a child. Despite widespread familiarity with the effects of divorce the details of the divorce process are less well known. In this section we discuss the important concepts and procedures involved in the divorce process with the sincere hope that educating people regarding this information will help minimize pain. You can feel like the loneliest person in the world when you are contemplating divorce. It's therefore important to keep divorce in perspective so that it doesn't crush you. If you think that sexual infidelity is the leading cause of divorce you’ve got it all wrong. We polled over 100 Your Tango experts to see what they say are the top reasons married couples decide to split and believe it or not communication problems came out on top as the number one reason marriages fail. Here are some other culprits our experts blame for the high divorce rate. I’ve met many divorced women who say the problems that made them leave were there right from the beginning but everyone expected us to live happily ever after or we had already spent so much money on the wedding or we had just built our dream home. So remember until you say I do you always have the choice to say I don’t Just as many couples forget their single friends and single ways when they get married when you add children into the mix most parents soon neglect or completely forget that they are a couple. As children grow and need less attention many husbands and wives find that they have grown apart and they can’t remember why they ever got married in the first place because they no longer have anything in common. It’s not usually the lack of finances that causes the divorce but the lack of compatibility in the financial arena. I’m talking about physical contact. Of course, sex is great but you also need to supplement it with little hello and goodbye kisses impromptu hugs and simply holding hands. Couples who don’t maintain an intimate connection through both sexual and non-sexual actions are destined to become virtual strangers. This is a very difficult one, and painful for many people. You know how when you got married, everyone said you were marrying your fiancé's family, as well as your fiancé Well this truth also works in reverse. When you divorce your wife you are also divorcing her family, in most cases. You see just like the friends family will often feel forced to take sides and guess who they are going to pick? Of course their son or daughter. So the relationship with your in laws will probably change if not end.