18 Oct 2016

Dowry jahez

 

Marriage plays an important role in human life. As it is a turning point of life. It leads to many problems in life after marriage but before marriage there is a big deal that can affect life after marriage that is dowry system. A dowry is a transfer of parental property at the marriage of a daughter. Dowry contrasts with the related concepts of bride price and dower. A money the societal tribulations that triumph and infecting society the dowry system plays the most significant role. It is sprawling its tentacles for and ample in the society distressing almost every segment of the society and it is especially prevalent in Pakistani culture. Dowry is a kind of compensation which is given by the parents of bride of the Groom or his parents. It may be cash amount some furniture vehicle or other kind of house used products. It has become a common exercise in the modern age too even after so many organization and NGO are working to protect the women rights and to fight against the dowry system. The society and human behavior decide the customs in the life course.The rich as well as the poor are now misery more or less similarly from this social swearword.
I refused a marriage proposal because they demanded dowry every year in Pakistan thousand of young brides lose their lives over dowry differences. They are murdered burned or marred by husbands and in- laws whose material stays unfulfilled. In Pakistan young women need to have plenty of qualities to get marriage fair complexion beauty thin figure education great background and cooking skills. Yet the trait that has turned in to the most troubling for women is dowry. In Pakistan the presence of dowry gets drowned by other similarly terrible crimes for example acid burning child marriage and sexual wildness. In any case these wrong doings are regularly brought on by a big amount of dowry that the bride brings. The parents of girls take it for granted that they have to pay for dowry and carry. 

The burden of a lavish wedding where the groom’s family can make unreasonable demands and expect them to be fulfilled. No questions asked. It is also considered normal that the girl will give up everything to go live with and serve her husband’s family. With such thoughts so deeply embedded in the social psyche it is no.


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